Shocked when I heard about the rules of the relationship game now, I first argued the point with my daughter then after things were explained to me, I understood what it is all about. It's a good thing to know what the new relationship rules are as these are quite civilized.
Having been married based on who won the fight, it's a totally different ball game right now. As the brothers battled it out for me, it was the way it was, then. I have seen big fights as the guy who courts one girl go all caveman like and hey, it was fun to watch, and our class used to even know that one group will fight with another group so if there was a party, the bait would be set and as we watched, it was the special message being sent but it isn't that way anymore.
Check out these rules. These things are being done, indeed.
There will be no fighting over the person that two people are courting. I have seen this it happens. There was this young lady would walk around with 2 guys who are both courting her following her around and our comment was that soon, those two guys would be holding hands! LOL
A breakup will not be announced to everyone until 2 weeks has passed. Of course, I believe that such a break would be talked about with the best friends but to others such as parents and on their Facebook status, this cannot be changed right away. This two week period is given in case the couple will reconcile and as couples do fight and cool off, instead of being on-off and agitating everyone else with an announcement that "we broke up and are back again" it's going to be a while before an "official" announcement is made.
No one in the group is allowed to court the girl who broke up with one of their friends for 6 months. An invader who is not part of their social group may do so but whoever is interested in the girl has to place his emotions on hold and just be her friend but no dating on a one-on-one basis.
If the two that broke up are no longer friendly and civilized, there is no way that both can be invited to certain parties and events. If one will be impolite, pours out their woes and destroys the other person, that is talked about and it crushes that person in that social circle. Alignments will be made to include that of social media like Facebook, wherein one person may experience a massive delete as the group can and will interfere. This radical move is deliberate and rather destructive.
There are people that enter relationships too fast and complain that they got used. There are relationships that are like a Nokia so it is user-friendly. There are those that are based on commitment. Then, there is that which is based on a spark.
These new relationship rules were explained to me by someone who belongs to this more civilized generation and as per my analysis, relationships should be given a chance and there is more to loving that just respect, there time frame is created for the couple to get back together if they want to.
Just wanted to share one of my all-time favorite videos to end this relationship post on a light note.
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