Acceptance of the neglect, lousy treatment, abuse, being used, pulled down, emotional manipulation, economic oppression, and the endless dangling of a dream are very difficult.
We have choices to shun, fight, answer back, stand up for ourselves, wait, keep quiet, or move on. The choices that we make defines us and paves the way to future happiness and the present state of mind.
Lack of acceptance drives us to anger, actions, pleading, trying for manipulation, and even may drive us insane.
For the lack of what we need and want, there are blank walls that fill the spaces. When a door closes, another opens, and so on. But then, knocking on the same door, knowing what will occur when trusting in the person, we must accept that the person is human.
There are unforgivable mistakes. Some make us depreciate and deteriorate. Others make us dive down to situations that we scream in silence for mercy and are left unheard.
The tales untold do unfold. Tug at the emotional heartstrings is useless. Ask for logic is also deemed as meaningless. Ask for ethical behavior is also not possible.
Do not ask.
The person has a brain to think if they use it. If there is empathy, it will come out. If there is sympathy, it will be shown. But, there are narcissists and other disorders, and sometimes, we have to accept the person, despite their behavior, to take the good with the bad.
Yah, right. So I am writing this now.
Borderline sarcastic.
Trust me, and it is useless to speak up.
Thus, the boiling rage remains inside. There is no time for a fight, as the others draw from your being and do not make you a priority in their life when they need you.
Such is life, and life goes on to seek waters that are to flow with happiness and satisfaction with a symbiotic relationship that puts your needs and wants first.
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